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Cherie Lee's avatar

Anne Marie, I'm so sorry you are facing heart surgery, but so glad to have found you via Victoria's note! You are just the person I need in my life because I am facing moving two homes (hopefully) in another year or so - our and my parents. I've subscribed and look forward to your stories and wisdom for many years to come!

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Anne Marie Bell's avatar

Thank you! And if you ever want some free downsizing/moving advice, please DM me. I love to share all my insider tips. :)

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Sarah wolfenden's avatar

I am officially a senior citizen but work like my 30 yr old teammates in the downsizing/move management/online estate auction biz. While I don't often meet our clients face to face, their homes tell me so very many amazing stories. From the faith that the things they held onto would be cherished by others, to the mementos of their glory days, clothes that they felt magical in several sizes ago, travel souvenirs and my favorite: rocks. I don't think I've been in a home that didn't have an ordinary rock (or several) in a jewelry drawer, on a shelf, in a jar, or a bedside table. As a lapidary artist/metal smith I understand this, and recognize the power of a stone- picked out from millions, held in a hand or pocket, given as a memento by a child, tied forever to a memory of a time and place. There has certainly been some squalor, but there is so much privilege in being able to connect with strangers and their past and see the familiar humanity in it all.

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Anne Marie Bell's avatar

Sarah- so glad to meet you! We have much in common. Isn’t downsizing just the best & most interesting job???

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Francesca Bossert's avatar

Dear Anne Marie, don’t worry about your heart surgery, someone with a heart as big as yours will better in no time. A friend of mine has just had a similar sounding operation and is doing well. I absolutely loved your story, and I cannot wait to read more. Beautiful emotional honest writing. Big hugs to you ❤️ Francesca xx

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Anne Marie Bell's avatar

Thank you for the kind words AND the encouragement! The docs tell me its routine surgery for them... its only a big deal for the patient. Makes sense!

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Victoria's avatar

Anne Marie - there are so many pieces I would love to unpack from this lovely debut article (pun intended). Happy to have found your publication, after you offered a lovely comment on my article today (May 15).

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Anne Marie Bell's avatar

Victoria- thank you so much for your support! It means so much. My goal is to unpack all sorts of things over the coming articles!

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Victoria's avatar

When you post-publish feel free to tag me when you share it in a note. Looking forward to reading your next article.

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Jeff Giesea's avatar

A heartwarming Substack debut

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Anne Marie Bell's avatar

Jeff- thank you! It means so much to me.

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MaryBeth's avatar

This is amazing, Anne Marie! I’m glad you are taking time for you and getting your heart healthy so you can enjoy many MORE years of the lake life and retirement with your family! You’ve done so much for people, and now it’s time for you!

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Anne Marie Bell's avatar

Thank you MaryBeth! I so appreciate your support!

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Ofifoto's avatar

Brilliant post, Anne Marie. Can't believe I missed it earlier. I'm so glad to have found you here on Substack.

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America Rebooted's avatar

God absolutely put you on this planet to help people! You are truly gifted! Thank you for sharing more of your story!

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America Rebooted's avatar

Ok… finished reading, Anne Marie, God truly put you hear for a reason and perhaps the next chapter that awaits you will bring the greatest unexpected blessings. Have faith that God is always by your side and will guide you along.

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Sherry Callas's avatar

Great stuff! You will do great with your surgery. Your energy will be back in no time! Love your writing.

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